Things that a son-in-law feels when he stays at home Mother

Everyone who is married and decides to settle down will definitely live together. Whether it's in your own home, a rented house or even an in-law's House.

It is impossible for two married people to live separately in each other's parents ' house as it was when they were still dating. If both have not been able to live in their own homes and have not been able to rent a place to live, then the last resort is to stay at the in-law's House.

Nowadays there are so many married couples who live with in-laws for reasons that cannot contract their own homes. Either the husband is not established or because it is the wife who is not allowed to leave her parents ' house.

This certainly makes the son-in-law thirsty to participate in life in the House of in-laws. For the son-in-law, living with the wife's parents is definitely not an easy matter. If not forced, they will not want to do it.

There are several negative things that a son-in-law feels when living in an in-law's house, here are the points:

1. Not having freedom

Living in the House of in-laws, automatically must follow the rules of the owner of the House. A son-in-law will automatically be more self-controlled when living in his parents ' house. His authority is shrinking, he can't do the things he likes all by himself.

If the son-in-law violates the rules that exist in the House of the in-laws, it will definitely be a problem in the future. Start bickering, fighting until a tenuous relationship with in-laws. So that the son-in-law who lives in the House of the in-laws will feel constrained in his life, especially when at home.

2. Stamped only Mokondo

The mouth of the neighbors and relatives of the wife certainly cannot be regulated and controlled by the son-in-law. As a man who lives in the House of in-laws, will definitely get a little skewed view in the form of a negative stigma that assumes that he is just a man mokondo aka just dick capital, not capital, unable to provide shelter for his wife.

Indeed, this is not directly thrown and not everyone thinks so, but there will always be those who underestimate a husband who lives in the House of his wife's parents because it is considered not able to provide a home as a place where they live the Big Dipper household.

3. In-Laws Interfere In Household Affairs

As parents who have a daughter and still live in her house, they will always consider her as a little girl who they always protect and take care of even though they are now married.

As a result, when the child has problems with her husband, a little or a lot, parents will interfere and this is inevitable because they all live under one roof. Here, making the husband feel a loss of self-esteem as head of the household because it does not have the power to control the captain of his own household due to frequent pestering

her mother-in-law.

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